Don't you just hate that time of the year (e.g. Christmas, birthdays) when you have to start thinking about gifts? I know I do. I often wonder why it has to be so difficult in the first place and exactly what has made it so difficult.

I've come to the conclusion that it's either one of three things - 1) people have everything they want; 2) you can't afford what they want; 3) they want you to suffer trying to figure out what to give them.

So, what should you do? Think outside of the box, of course! Unless you know exactly what the recipient wants, you should try to be creative. It's not that hard, really.

Ask yourself these questions:

* how old is he/she;

* does he/she have a hobby or a favorite activity (going to see a play in a theatre, trip to the zoo for kids, more golf balls or a Pilates' video);

* where he/she spends most of its time (people who spend most of their time at work appreciate quality staying home time and vice versa;

* is he/she is a crowd person (going out for a fancy dinner or a party);

* what he/she likes to talk about (possible hints);

* does he/she like gadgets (and most men do).

You will get lots of hints if you take the time and answer these simple questions. You must know something about the recipient why else would you bother yourself with a gift idea, right?

There are a few rules in gift giving, though.

If it's an elderly person, don't give them roller blades; but they do appreciate memories. A good idea would be a photo collage in a picture frame or a self-made book containing their most wonderful memories (grandchildren being born, birthdays, pictures of family, funny happenings etc).

Wrapping paper only has a wrapping function. But make sure it's pretty!

Pots and pans are a no-no. This is definitely a bad idea if it's a woman. Believe me, you don't want to go there!

The best gifts are personal and that's what makes them memorable!